Why do we need to marry?
Why can’t we simply exist and live in the world?
If love is your answer;
Why can’t we love all?
Why can’t we love our loved ones the way we love our special ones.
Why can’t we do that?
If kids are your answer;
Why can’t we simply have a collective nursery; Wherein, each child there is yours and is not.
Yet you love and care for them.
Or better, do we need really need to tie down, two humans, to raise a child?
If Intimacy is your answer;
Why can’t we be intimate with people we like and love.
Why do we restrict ourselves to just a single person throughout our lives?
If Money/Security is your answer;
Are we so much selfish that we are ready to live a life with someone who we don’t love but like their status or the safety which they offer?
Or are we being dumb here?
If Companionship is your answer;
In this transient world of hyper-connectiveness, why can’t we develop a strong bond of pure energy that stays unbreakable, no matter what?
Why can’t we have companionship with other hoomans as well?
If Making love is your answer;
Why can’t we make love to the many loved ones cherish?
Why does it have to be pure, animal-like, stinking of just pure flesh?
Mind you, I am not here talking about lust.
I am talking about the expression of a pure form of love through making love.
Why can’t we cuddle other than the one?
Why can’t we snuggle other than the knotted person?
Why can’t we freely express our love through our bodies?
Do we really require chains to love and to be loved?
Do we need cages to be selectively made love to?
Who started all of this anyway?
And why are all of us believing in it so blindly, so diligently?
Why is it that to even question this, we become frightful, fall into the forever abyss of self-doubt, and wondering is something wrong with ourselves?
Why don’t we have a free society where we can question anything and everything?
Coming back to the topic at hand.
Aren’t we too much harsh, to expect everything above mentioned
JUST A SINGLE HUMAN BEING.
What happens if your partner doesn’t or let’s say, CAN’T provide you on a platter all the dishes you just ordered?
Be it his/her own will or shortcomings or no fault of her own.
What if she simply can’t provide you with that, why are we so harsh on them?
Why do we behave so evil to them?
No human is holistically developed. Every man has his own natural and acquired mistakes.
Why can’t we have multiple loved ones?
Why can’t we have different humans for the same?
Do we really need to settle with just a single one?
The One who sees, listens, feels everything,
And then questions them.
2 thoughts on “Why do we need to marry?”
Sir well said “why you & your love is allow to limited for one person”.
Great putting of facts by question- answer method.
Funfact is this blog is very helpful for someone to conveying parents for no- marriage 😄
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Thank you so much Raj ji 🙂
Haha why not! xD